Your First Date
So the object of your online dating affection just accepted your first date invitation, and you're about to go on that sometimes elusive first date. Well, first impressions are extremely important.
Here are some tips to ensure that you get started on the right foot and make a great first impression.
First things first - think positively. The opposite is also true - try not to be too uptight, nervous or too excited. Relax.
Next, pick a place where you can get to know each other. A movie is usually a bad idea for a first date. A daytime lunch or coffee meeting can be the ideal first date that does not put too much pressure on either party to start.
Plan ahead - this means that you need to have a series of activities lined up before your first date. This also means that you need to consider the fact that there may be unexpected turn of events such as rain, high-priced tickets that turn out to be fake, and restaurants you have never seen closed now with a sign that reads "Closed for Renovation". Have a backup plan!
Short first dates work wonders - this means you can start with a short first date well around an hour or 2 at most. Having enough time to talk while dining and getting to know each other better would be the best way to assure yourself of a second date.
Dress Appropriately and be punctual - this means that you and your date should have agreed on a dress code before going out on a date, and you should always be on time to pick up or meet your date. Disrespecting the time of others, especially your ideal partner on your first date, would totally be disastrous.
Have a sense of humility with dignity - this means that you should say good things to your date without acting desperate. This can be done by limiting compliments into manageable proportions.
Drink responsibly, listen attentively, and try not to talk nonsense. Naturally drinking too much would lead most people to more incoherent speech - avoid this at all costs.
Always thank the other person for the date. Be on your best behavior and mind your manners.
Focus on the Other Person - pay attention to your date.
Don't let your eyes wander too much and don't bring up old relationships, or other touchy subjects. Try not to dwell too much on work either.
Be an attentive listener. Don't interrupt and don't spend time thinking about what you're going to say next while your date is speaking.
We wish you the best of luck in your dating adventures!